I have heard it said on more than a handful of occasions that children are the toughest job and the greatest joy one can experience. While I am sure that isn’t exactly true for everyone, it is for me. One of the greatest challenges that I have had with my young children is understanding what the hell they are talking about.
Obviously, little Hayden at 6 months old isn’t talking yet, but she is definitely communicating. Her cries, whimpers, screams, giggles, and coos all mean something, and can often mean several things…oh, wait…maybe she is speaking Hawaiian?
Kerry seems to understand her better than I do. She seems to know that one kicking fit means Hayden is hungry while another means she is tired. For me she is either happy, sad, content, or asleep. While simple, it seems to work between Hayden and I, until it’s time to eat, of course.
Xavier’s speech, on the other hand, has exploded recently. Just 7 months ago on his second birthday, Xavier possessed a handful of words and could compose a rare, brief, and somewhat intelligible sentence to ask for water or to see a train. Today, he speaks primarily in sentences, and possesses a shockingly complex vocabulary (along with a word or two I wished he hadn’t picked up on – though sure to get a bit saltier in future years). According to one of my favorite “assistance books”, What To Expect, The Toddler Years, children about Xavier’s age should be able to carry on a conversation of 2 or 3 sentences, so he is right on target, but it still amazes me.
Among his favorite words of late are actually and maybe. Listening to him talk gives me perspective on what it must be like for immigrants to this country, suddenly trying to learn the English language. “Maybe” doesn’t so much mean that something might or might not happen, but rather acts as a lead in to a request for something…assuming a yes response, of course.
“Maybe us go see trains?”
“Maybe I can have juice?”
“Actually” is even more enjoyable to listen to. Xavier sounds like a wise instructor always correcting our sentences.
“Actually we are watching Nemo.”
“Actually us going to the park today.”
Every day brings new developments, and already the word maybe seems to be finding its’ more proper role as a frequently used adverb to express the possibility of something. He has thankfully picked up on “please” in the last few days, and now politely asks for things like water, or to see trains…unless we say no, that is.